Celebrating Parents: Be Proud of Your Progress from May 2025

Heyyy BCBA Ruby here,

As we wrap up another month and look ahead to the summer, I want to take a moment to celebrate parents. Parenting, especially when raising children with autism, is no easy task, and it's important to recognize and honor the hard work and dedication that goes into each and every day.

In this blog, I want to highlight why parents should be proud of themselves as we head into June 2025—and how they can take pride in the progress they've helped make happen.

1. You Show Up Every Day

Parenting is a 365-day job. Whether it’s navigating therapy schedules, attending meetings, or simply providing emotional support, parents are the ones who keep it all together. And the fact that you're showing up each day—even on the tough ones—is something to be proud of. You are dedicated to your child’s growth, even when it feels like a rollercoaster ride.

2. You Advocate for Your Child

Advocacy is a superpower that many parents harness. Whether it’s advocating for better services, more understanding at school, or simply finding ways to ensure your child’s needs are met, you're making a real difference in their world. Being an advocate takes courage, persistence, and strength—and that’s something to celebrate every single day.

3. You Work in Partnership with Therapists

Collaboration between parents and the therapy team is one of the most important components of success. You’re actively working alongside BCBAs, RBTs, and other professionals to ensure that your child receives the best possible care. That partnership is a direct reflection of your commitment to their well-being.

4. You Celebrate the Small Wins

Parenting a child with autism is often about celebrating the little victories that others might overlook. Whether it’s a new word spoken, a new behavior learned, or a successful therapy session, these moments are monumental. Recognizing and celebrating these wins means you’re seeing the progress, even when it feels slow. And that’s an important part of the journey!

5. You Invest in Yourself and Your Family

Self-care is often overlooked in the parenting world, but when you invest in yourself—whether it’s taking a break, seeking support, or simply finding joy in life—you’re better equipped to handle the challenges that come your way. Parents need to recharge so they can continue being the best advocates and caregivers. Your commitment to self-love and care makes you stronger, and it’s something to be proud of.

6. You Are Teaching Resilience

Every challenge you face with your child teaches resilience—to both you and them. You show them that mistakes are okay, trying again is worth it, and that growth is a lifelong journey. You are shaping their resilience, which will serve them throughout their life.

7. You Are Not Alone

It’s easy to feel isolated at times, but remember: there’s a whole community of parents just like you who understand the challenges and victories you face. You’re not alone in this journey, and there are many others who are walking the same path. Connecting with others can help reinforce the importance of your work and make you realize that you are doing a fantastic job.

So, Why Should You Be Proud?

As we celebrate the end of another month and head into May 2025, take a moment to reflect on all the hard work you’ve done. From advocating for your child to collaborating with your team, you are helping to shape a brighter future for your family.

Parenting isn’t easy—but it’s so worth it. Whether big or small, every effort you make to help your child succeed is a testament to your love, patience, and resilience. Don’t forget to be proud of yourself—you deserve it!

Parents, you’re amazing. 💙 Keep going, and know that your efforts are truly changing the world for your child.

Got something to celebrate? Share a win or a story with me in the comments below!

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